“My BMI isn’t that high, but I still feel stuck.”
That’s something I hear from women all the time — especially in midlife. You might not “qualify” by traditional standards, but the cravings, fatigue, and weight gain are still real.
Here’s what most people don’t realize:
Many telehealth providers now approve GLP-1s for women with a BMI as low as 18 — if there’s a clear medical reason. And in your 40s or 50s? That reason might be hormones, insulin resistance, or appetite shifts — not just the scale.
You don’t need to wait until your health falls apart to get help. You’re allowed to support your body now.
Let’s break down the guidelines, the gray area, and why more midlife women are asking about GLP-1s — even without a “high” BMI.
- BMI doesn’t tell the whole story — especially for women 35+ navigating hormonal shifts and metabolic changes
- Telehealth providers now approve GLP-1s at lower BMIs if there’s a medical need like insulin resistance, cravings, or energy crashes
- Compounded meds offer flexibility and access for women who don’t qualify under strict insurance guidelines
- It’s not about the scale — it’s about stability, regulation, and feeling like yourself again
- GLP-1s aren’t for everyone, but they may help women who feel stuck despite doing all the “right” things
What the Guidelines Say (And Where They Fall Short)
The official prescribing guidelines for GLP-1 medications like Wegovy®, Zepbound®, and Ozempic® are based on BMI thresholds:
- BMI of 30 or higher = eligible for weight loss treatment
- BMI of 27+ with a qualifying condition (like high blood pressure, prediabetes, or PCOS) = may be eligible
Sounds clear, right? But here’s the problem:
Most women in their 40s and 50s don’t fit cleanly into those boxes — even when their health is changing fast.
You might not meet the BMI cutoff, but your body’s still screaming for support. And that’s valid.
Why This Doesn’t Work for Midlife Women
- BMI doesn’t account for hormonal shifts or menopause weight gain
- It ignores insulin resistance, fatigue, or inflammatory changes
- It misses women with “normal weight” but chaotic hunger cues, sugar crashes, or sleep-disrupting cravings
Many women know something’s off — but are told they don’t qualify for support because they’re “not overweight enough.”
That outdated logic leaves a lot of midlife women behind.
Why Some Providers Still Offer It Below BMI Thresholds
Even though traditional guidelines set the bar at a BMI of 27 or 30, many telemedicine providers now go lower — often down to a BMI of 18.5 — if there’s a clear medical need.
So what’s changed?
Providers Are Looking at the Bigger Picture
Forward-thinking telehealth platforms are no longer relying on BMI alone. Instead, they’re looking at:
- Blood sugar swings
- Appetite dysregulation
- Insulin resistance
- Hormonal weight gain
- Persistent fatigue or brain fog related to metabolism
They understand that for women 35+ taking a GLP-1, it’s not always about how much you weigh — it’s about how your body is functioning.
A woman with a BMI of 24 can still be inflamed, exhausted, and constantly battling cravings — and that’s a medical need worth supporting.
Compounded GLP-1s Offer More Flexibility
Because compounded GLP-1 versions aren’t tied to insurance restrictions, they give providers more freedom to:
- Start at lower doses
- Personalize titration schedules
- Combine medications with B12 or other support
- Approve treatment based on symptoms — not just numbers
That flexibility is one of the reasons many midlife women turn to brands like Join Josie, Willow, or Eden for more personalized care. If the provider you are (or thinking of) going with uses a 503A compounding pharmacy, then compounded GLP-1s can be safe. Even though they aren't FDA-approved, 503A pharmacies operate under strict FDA regulations.
The Benefits Beyond Weight Loss Are Hard to Ignore
For many midlife women, it’s not just about dropping pounds — it’s about feeling more stable, more clear-headed, and more in control.
Early research and clinical experience suggest that GLP-1 medications may support improvements beyond weight, including:
- Reducing chronic inflammation
- Stabilizing blood sugar swings
- Calming cravings and food noise
- Improving energy or sleep quality in some cases
It’s not a miracle drug — but for the right woman, at the right time, it can be the reset her body’s been asking for.
These additional effects aren’t guaranteed — and they shouldn’t be the sole reason to take a GLP-1 — but they’re part of the conversation, especially for women whose symptoms don’t show up neatly on a BMI chart.
Why Women in Midlife Are Asking for It Anyway
Even without meeting the traditional BMI cutoffs, women in their mid 30s, 40s and 50s are asking about GLP-1s — and not because they’re chasing a shortcut.
They’re asking because their bodies feel out of sync, and they’ve already tried the usual stuff:
- Clean eating
- Exercise
- Cutting sugar
- Managing stress
- Sleeping better
And still… the weight creeps up. The cravings spike. The energy crashes. And the scale isn’t even the biggest concern anymore — it’s how they feel inside their body.
For a lot of my clients, it’s not about size — it’s about sanity. They want to feel stable again, like they’re not ruled by hunger or fatigue.
The Common Midlife Themes I Hear:
- “I’m not even eating that much — and I’m still gaining.”
- “I’m constantly thinking about food, even when I’m full.”
- “The belly weight, the inflammation, the joint aches — I feel puffy and exhausted.”
- “It’s like I’m doing everything right, and nothing’s changing.”
When nothing else is working, GLP-1s may offer a stabilizing effect — not just in weight, but in appetite, blood sugar, and mental clarity.
And for many women, that’s worth exploring — even if the scale says they're “fine.”
My Take: The Number Isn’t the Whole Story
Let’s be honest — BMI was never built for women in midlife.
It doesn’t account for hormones, stress, inflammation, or the metabolic shifts that come with aging. It doesn’t measure fatigue. It doesn’t track how out of control your cravings feel at 3 p.m.
And it definitely doesn’t see what’s going on beneath the surface.
I’ve had clients with a BMI of 24 who were completely inflamed, exhausted, and holding on to belly fat despite eating clean and lifting weights. The number doesn’t tell the full story — your symptoms do.
If your hunger feels chaotic, your blood sugar crashes regularly, or you feel like your body is fighting you — that’s real.
And if GLP-1s are the tool that helps you regulate those signals and finally build sustainable habits, you shouldn’t feel guilty for exploring that.
This isn’t about weight loss for the sake of thinness.
It’s about relief, regulation, and reclaiming control over how your body responds to food, stress, and life.
When It’s Not a Good Fit
GLP-1s can be incredibly helpful for some women in midlife — but they’re not for everyone.
And just because something’s available doesn’t mean it’s always the right next step.
Here’s how I help my clients think it through.
It might not be the right choice if:
- You’re seeking it only for cosmetic weight loss, although some providers offer this
- You’re not ready to support it with food, movement, or mindset shifts
- You feel secretive or unsafe about how you’re getting it (no provider, no support)
- You expect it to fix everything without changing anything else
- You’re already under-eating or have a history of disordered eating
If you're hoping this will solve everything on its own — or if the process feels rushed or hidden — that’s a sign to pause and check in with your ‘why.’
GLP-1s aren’t a substitute for care, nourishment, or strength. You should also know the side effects for women involved with GLP-1s before starting, so you have a clear picture.
But when they’re part of a thoughtful, supported plan? They can absolutely be a powerful tool — even if your BMI says you don’t “need it.”




